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|  || Saturday, December 01, 2007 || I feel like my blog's dying. BUT NO! It's not! Haha just that sometimes I'm a little lazy to type that much. Anyways.Firstly, I would like to express my great detestation, abhorrence, revulsion, hate, and odium for suntv serials (don't mind me just am in the mood for big words). For those of you who don't know, suntv happens to be a tamil channel, from india, which is on cable tv. For those of you who do know suntv, you probably might feel the same, when it comes to the nasty little dramas. Each one lasts for like 20 minutes, and one is no different then the other. EVERYTHING has got to do with family problems, how the mother-in-law plots against the daughter-in-law, or how a nasty person spends all his/her life, plotting against a really really nice person, making their lives miserable, etc. Now the new trend is for the serial to revolve around one particular woman, whom bears all the problems that could possibly ever happen in a family, and still be a nicey nice nice person. What's up with that? I swear, the serials harp on the same things, same old silly issues and they move at snail's pace. A person could be getting married on monday, and the wedding would only be done on friday. Gosh. And by the time they go back home, it'll be wednesday. And what are the learning points from these serials. NONE. I actually think they give ideas to the people who watch them on how to corrupt a family or, to relate those events to their family stuff and just aggravate the issue. And I forgot. There's this game show on suntv for couples. It's basically to build bonds between them. This is one crackpot game show, which actually makes the couples fight, as part of the few games they play, AND give them money based on how well they fight. HAH. It's torture. Trust me. And we had CCA open house last saturday. ATC made puppets! Don't quite know how it went but I guess it would have been ok. And for my puppet....*drum rolls* (ok it's not that magnificent but wth)  Ah. You may look at it at think it's such a nice little happy girl. Aww look at her all bright and yellow with a (sick) smile on her face.  Ahah! But she's not! She's a devil now! Look at the beady little evil eyes, her chain all ripped and her buttons all over the place! Ok so my puppet's a girl with split personality. Pretty cool concept huh? Haha. My sister says I made myself. Haha. Ok but no that's not me. You know some people do have twisted little opinions about love. Or twisted little ways in which they express their love. They might get so possessive over you. They don't like you talking to other people of the opposite sex. They want you to be by their side 24/7, and if you don't, oh boy do they get mad. They use insulting little swear words on you. And sometimes they care only about how they feel being in that relationship. All in the name of love. You know for one, when you say you love a person, you shouldn't only like them for who they are on the outside, cause that's not love. That's just physical attraction. You should actually take them for who they are, and be in love more with the inside then the outside. And for god's sake, don't use vulgarities on the person you so called really love, cause guess what? It hurts. And I'm talking about the times when you're in a real heated arguement, not the "play-play" times. I mean, if you think of the person as a (insert insult here), then why go out with the person? And please. As much as the person is in a relationship with you, the person has his/her own life, his/her own obligations. Being in a relationship doesn't mean dedicating his/her WHOLE LIFE to you. And when people start talking about your partner, it would be nice if you just talk about it nicely to your partner, or you should know your partner well enough to gauge if he/she is really like that, or would have done that. Don't start making nasty little assumptions, and attack the person one fine day when you have a fight. And. If the relationship doesn't work, take it like a man(or woman) and walk away. Don't keep bugging the person to patch back, cause that's just plain annoying. It kinda makes you look really desperate. Everything happens for a reason. In this case it just wasn't meant to be. I mean, think about it as a learning experience. You would have learned some things about people or relationships or whatever, and if you take it in a good light, it'll definitely help you grow as a person. Sheesh. You might think that the older you grow, the more mature you get, but with some people it isn't that way. To the people who just read all that, don't worry, I'm not in a difficult relationship whatsoever. Just some random thoughts. Oh and teachers, haha, don't worry. My sister got high on vaseline. She rubbed it on her face (it's good moisturiser by the way), lips, and elbows. And then she started laughing like a maniac. And then she asked me if I've ever wondered how it would be like to throw sheep at each other. And then she enacts the act, which sheep noises (BAAAAAAAAAAA). And then she laughed somemore. And then she started reading her book out loud, which I found quite wierd at that moment. Haiz. Oh well. Even if we don't look like sisters at all, that's least that's one thing we've got in common. Ok and a few other things as well but yea. Sometimes you just wanna forgo certain phases of your life. It's just too tiring, too vexing, too much to handle. But too bad. 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