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|  || Monday, December 14, 2009 ||  It's only healthy to talk out things that bug you with people whom are concerned, in a well, civilised manner. It's not healthy to keep it inside of you, and mull over your own thoughts without talking about the issue with the people concerned. It's never good to bottle up emotions, cause eventually when you let it out, it's not gonna be in a proper way, and that's when nasty things which were uncalled for would happen. So if you have something, talk about it. Not in a bitchy way. But actually talk about how to make it work. On ways to make it better. If not don't bitch about it and be so bitter about it. Move on or something. If you wanna be bitter about it and not do anything else about it, well then no one can help you. Goodness and so many people bitching about people via the net!! Goodness!! Reading it everywhere now! I mean if you already talked about the issue with the person and are just expressing your thoughts or something general which people can learn from, then I guess it's ok. But actually bitching about people or saying hidden stuff to them when you actually know people read it?? It's either you want them to read it, or you want them to know that you're talking about them. Same difference. In that case, you're being a _______(insert word here). Cause if you have something to say to a person, say it upfront, say it to their faces. Don't do it via the net. Just shows that you don't have the courage to say it to them and yea. It's just bitchy. So if you don't want people thinking you're scared, then talk to them properly, and don't bitch. And as much as we say we don't care about what people think of us, at least a teeny tiny portion of us does, in some ways. You know you do. |
