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|  || Saturday, February 27, 2010 || I had been wanting to post these things up for quite some time, and now I shall. These thoughts were actually spurred by one of the topics suggested for a module in school, which went something like "Spare the rod, spoil the child". My stand to that is neutral; yes, if your child is really out of hand and doing crazy things, then maybe, giving them a slap or two might work. But if you hit them for stupid reasons, then you should be hit too. These are some points I picked out from the net:   These might seem trivial to the children who don't, or never get hit, but it might make much more sense to the ones who did, or do get hit. And to the parents, yes, it's going to be in your child's head for a long, long time, if you hit them for issues that could have been talked about. Talking to them about issues and having a healthy discussion does help. And it wouldn't hurt to hear out your child's point. They aren't arguing with you all the time, sometimes they just want you to listen. And for the guys out there who do this. Come on. We know you how much you love yelling out vulgarities when you're with your fellow guy friends. Sometimes we girls don't get it, when you use, "Fuck you" or "Chi Bai" or "Na Bei" or other such unpleasant words, strung together in a sentence, like they are conjunctions, in a perfectly normal situation, where everyone's talking normally. It's really unpleasant to hear it every few minutes or so, when you have such conversations with your guy friends. But that's ok. Just don't use it on us girls. We're not your chums, we don't think it's fun when you talk to us using such language, and it's DEFINITELY NOT ACCEPTABLE WHEN YOU USE SUCH WORDS ON US. You're degrading us, yourself, and you're coming across as an asshole. A decent guy would NEVER use such unpleasant words on girls like it's no big deal, cause it is. You especially should never use it on a regular basis, or whenever you get into a fight. It's disgusting. To give you a better picture, imagine some person yelling such demeaning words at your mother or your sister, and I think the idea will be alot more clearer.  And seriously, after having said all that, you give us your lame comforting words? Please. You can't try and take back words you already threw out. Alot of us will never understand that. blossoms...{ 1:19 AM } || Saturday, February 20, 2010 || For some, it always depends on convenience and mood doesn't it? blossoms...{ 9:16 PM } || Thursday, February 18, 2010 || Ok so I look at my blog and say, "What's up with all the sad posts?!?!" SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO......................... Here's a fun fact! =D Did you know that the elephant is the only mammal that can't jump? Hahaha! It's true! =D  blossoms...{ 7:58 AM }  Yeaaaa....Sometimes blood ain't thicker than water.... Sometimes blood chooses people it's known for less than a month and whom it has started calling life partner, over you.... Yea sometimes blood ain't that wise either. And it goes talking about the little one. blossoms...{ 7:41 AM } || Saturday, February 13, 2010 || Sucks doesn't it, when you can't talk about your feelings to people whom you thought would listen, but don't want to anymore?I mean, do they actually know how upsetting that is? Naaaaaaaah. That's cause they probably don't know what it's like, 'cause you're the big fat jackass who's always been there for them. Will get used to it. Am already getting used to it. Sweetness!!! =D blossoms...{ 5:56 AM } || Wednesday, February 10, 2010 ||   Yea uh-huh, if men use the excuse of needing special "proteins" found in protein shakes to build-up muscles, then yea uh-huh, women can use the excuse of needing special "enzymes" found in slimming products to lose weight. So if you're a guy who takes protein shakes to build-up, then don't scorn at women who use slimming products, or tell them, "You have to lose weight naturally!!" Seriously. It's the double standards that drive me absolutely crazy. blossoms...{ 8:12 AM } || Monday, February 08, 2010 || A wise man once said to me that "I would rather have a girl tell me she likes me first, than I tell her, 'cause that means that she'll try her best to make it work in everyway possible, and she'll really hold on to you. And when that happens, I'll never let her go." Well at least that's just the gist of it, cause I can't remember the exact words. Of course, "like" in this sense means really having deep feelings for one, and not just the attraction bit. But anyways. If only the wise man had been someone else.But then again, this doesn't apply to every girl. blossoms...{ 3:35 AM } || Saturday, February 06, 2010 || I'm always looking forward to the end of rainbows. 'Cause that's where they say you'll find a pot of gold. But what's the point if it all just ends up being a pot of leprechaun gold? 
blossoms...{ 6:16 AM } || Thursday, February 04, 2010 ||  I don't want no bad guys.I just want a good guy. A genuine, good guy. I'll be happy with my good guy. I don't care if he looks like a bad guy, so long as he's a good guy. I do not like bad guys, not that much anyways. A good guy is all I want. A good good guy. Hahaha awww ain't that guy goofy? =D |
